Friendship and Love are not any consumer product which can be bought and soold in a market place at ones' convenience. They are also not cosmetics or perfumes with which to make one's life fresh and fragrant and in an attempt to conceal the body odour whi as some instinct. They are neither bondage nor liberation by themselves. But they are consummation and a fulfilment or completion of the higher degree. A true love is of transcending nature, beyond everything. It is something like enlightment and freedom where a person feels no suffering or of being held in shackles.